“And among His signs is that He created for you spouses from among yourselves, so that you may find tranquility in them; and He planted between you love and compassion. In this are signs for people who think.”[Sura Ar-Rum:Verse21]
Marriage is a partnership that’s based on constructivism, that’s to say that each of the partners completes the other’s efficiency and the inner need to form a strong relationship bond.
Unlike women, men fear commitment because they value their freedom and independence. That’s why finding ‘ the right one ‘ may seem hard for them because they put in all their thoughts, energy, and time to look for a decent good- hearted woman who shares the good and bad times, and also to maintain a healthy happy meaningful relationship.
Here are the best qualities men want in a woman.
1. She’s confident
Self-confidence is an essential trait that men want in a woman because for them it’s a sign that she values herself and has full faith in her abilities. A woman who is resilient, peaceful, loves herself, and feels good in her own skin.
2. Well-educated and intelligent
Education is the pillar of every society. An intelligent well-educated woman doesn’t mean that she needs to have a ph.D degree, but a good grasp of common sense, a woman who is intellectually challenging, can discuss different ideas in different fields such as cultural, societal, and political matters in a respectful way.
A man likes a woman who shares with him his ideas, ambitions, and future projects. A woman who ignites his enthusiasm and courage to progress for the better. Furthermore, an educated woman has many advantages such as the ability to take care of and raises her children, and solve the psychological and educational problems of her kids that they may be exposed to in school.
Being a supportive spouse is another quality that a man wants in a woman and he finds it a fundamental component of a balanced and healthy relationship. A supportive woman is going to encourage and help the man to reach his goals and support his needs and share responsibilities to overcome obstacles.
4. Mature and responsible
In addition to being supportive, a man admires a woman who is mature and responsible, that is to say, she focuses on her personal growth and sets clear goals for herself. She also controls her behaviors and knows her boundaries.
5. She communicates
I asked a friend of mine: “what’s the most important quality that you want in a woman?” he said, communication for me is important since most women whine and complain. So, a happy and healthy relationship is based on trustful communication, and expressing thoughts and opinions without fear. A man likes a woman who communicates about everything and shares interesting topics and conversations with openness, trustfulness, and vulnerability.
Appearance and beauty are what attracts a man to a woman at the first sight. The beauty of a woman triggers a man’s attention and by saying a ‘beautiful woman, this doesn’t mean that she needs to be a bombshell. Men are attracted to a woman who takes care of herself and looks presentable and natural.
Let’s be honest, women are becoming less feminine than women in the past. Nowadays, women are acting and behaving like men, they talk in loud voices and act with manliness. Therefore, Men are charmed by a woman who feels good in her own skin. A woman who is spontaneous, vulnerable, soft, and gentle.
8. She is independent
Another attractive trait that men want in a woman is independence; a woman who isn’t too needy and demanding of a man. Moreover, when a woman is independent she can rely on herself and will gain her respect and become highly valued in society.
9. Honest and loyal
Men really value a woman who is honest and loyal to build a strong vibrant relationship. Being loyal and honest to your man means that you love and respect him.
On the other hand, loyalty and honesty in a relationship, mean being your true self, supporting, and establishing a strong foundation of trust and safety.
10. She cares for him
A Man loves a caring and thoughtful woman who takes care of his needs, feeling,s and requirements. He also loves a woman who brings positive vibes and takes care of single details like cleaning and decorating the house.
11. She has a strong character
“I fell in love with her courage, her sincerity, and her flaming self-respect. And it’s these things I’d believe in, even if the whole world indulged in wild suspicions that she wasn’t all she should be. I love her and it is the beginning of everything.”
― F. Scott Fitzgerald
Having a strong personality is another fascinating quality that men love in a woman because it makes her autonomous, self-aware, dynamic, and needless to say that she’s proud of herself. A woman with a strong character is also courageous and knows her worth, she isn’t afraid of life’s challenges and obstacles.
12. Peaceful mind
A peaceful woman has an inner mind, she is always at ease with herself and tries to boost feelings of tranquility and happiness. A peaceful woman can accept herself and others, she is always ready to confront life with an open heart and wiseness.
13. Friendly and easygoing
“It is not a lack of love, but a lack of friendship that makes unhappy marriages.” — Friedrich Nietzsche
Having a partner who is friendly and easygoing is important for a man because it’s going to boost his self-esteem and decreases stress. A man loves a woman who treats him as a friend and understands his own ideas, thoughts, and perspectives.
14. She listens
The ideal life partner is one who listens with open ears and is attentive to what the other person says. Listening is essential in every relationship because it improves communication skills between partners and develops mutual respect and trust.
15. She gives him space and freedom
One of the important things that a woman should pay attention to is giving her man his own space when needed, that’s to say, avoid constant texting as “what are you doing?” or “where are you?”.Instead, focus on other things that might interest you.
An important quality that men love in a woman, is dating an ambitious woman who always establishes and works towards her dreams and goals to achieve them. A woman who talks about her busy days and success is going to impress her man which is going to build better bonds in the relationship.